Pet & Animal: How to Train an Abused Dog

Dogs who’ve suffered abuse may be withdrawn, depressed, inactive, and distrustful. While not all fearful and shy dogs have been abused, abuse can make the dog hesitant and nervous around humans. While it takes time to help a pup overcome its past, abused dogs can become loving pets if the right person comes into their life. If you’ve rescued an abused dog, then you’ll likely want to train it. Before you can train your dog, you need to take care of the dog’s health and safety so that it can learn to trust you. Then you will be able to housebreak your dog, teach it basic commands, and help it overcome its past.

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EditTraining Your Dog to Trust You

Give the dog time to get comfortable in its new home. When you first bring the dog home, expect it to be afraid and upset. Don’t crowd the dog or pressure it to explore, even if you've provided a nice set up. Bring the dog to a comfortable, safe space in your home, such as an alcove in your living room, and let the dog get used to your home on its own time. Over time, it may be ready to explore.^[1]
- If you think it's best to not leave the dog alone, you can sit in the room with it while it adjusts. However, you don't want to hover over the dog or overwhelm it.
- Offer the dog treats and calm praise.
- While the dog is adjusting, try not to stare at the dog or make sudden movements. Keep a quiet environment. Turn down the volume on music and TV. Loud, sudden movements or staring could frighten the dog.
Acclimate the dog to your presence if it’s afraid of you. Some abused dogs are afraid of people. You can help the dog get used to you by sitting in the room with the dog but at a comfortable distance. Occasionally, speak to the dog in a calm, loving tone. When the dog gets comfortable, move a little closer until you can sit next to the dog.
- When petting the dog, do not touch the top of its head. Instead, let the dog sniff your hand. If the dog lets you, gently stroke the underside of their jaw. If the dog leaves or shrinks away, stop petting the dog immediately.
- Do not hug or put your arms around the dog until it is completely comfortable around you. The dog may take this as a sign of aggression.
- Be sure to show your dog lots of love once it starts to warm up to you.^[2]
Build positive experiences with your dog. You can teach your abused dog that it can have a positive relationship with a human through having good times together. Have fun with your dog by taking it on walks, playing with it, and petting it. Choose activities that don’t trigger the dog’s past abuse experiences.^[3]
- Some dogs may like to be brushed. Just make sure to go slowly and stop if the dog growls or moves away.
- If your dog doesn’t like to play, that’s okay. As long as you’re spending time with the dog, it will help the dog become more open to training.
Limit triggers that could provoke your dog to react. Most dogs have triggers, such as being afraid of the mailman, but an abused dog will likely have many more triggers than a typical dog. These triggers should be avoided. Typical triggers for abused dogs include the following:^[4]
- Sudden movement.
- Yelling.
- Loud noises.
- Using phrases they commonly heard from their abusers.
- Threatening gestures.
- Touching the dog in the areas where it was wounded.
- Raising items that could be used as a weapon.
- Using deep or loud voices around the dog.
Contact a dog trainer or behaviorist if the dog growls or snaps at you. Abused dogs may be extremely fearful, which means that they are more likely to bite. If your dog growls, snaps, or runs from you, you should get professional help. Contact a dog trainer, veterinarian, or a Certified Animal Behaviorist for help.^[5]
- Signs of a scared dog include heavy panting, urination, whining, growling, pacing, or showing the whites of its eyes.
- Never leave a child alone or unsupervised with a fearful dog. The dog could bite the child.

EditHousebreaking an Abused Dog

Follow a schedule. You need to take your dog out to relieve itself at the same time each day. For example, you may take your dog out after you get up, at lunch, right after work, and in the evening before you get ready for bed.^[6]
- Dogs should be taken out 3 to 5 times a day. Smaller and younger dogs require more walks then larger breeds. However, since your dog has been abused, it may require more trips outside. Just make sure to keep the dog on a leash while outside of a fenced yard.^[7]
Avoid punishing the dog for accidents. It’s normal to come home to accidents, but there’s no point in punishing the dog for them. Once the dog has walked away from the accident, it won’t understand why you are upset with it. If you do yell or put the dog’s nose in it, you will only risk triggering the dog.^[8]
- Clean up any messes quickly. Make sure to use an enzymatic cleaning agent (available at most pet stores) to remove the smell so that the dog does not return to the spot.
- Remember that you should never yell at or punish an abused dog.
Interrupt accidents you catch and take the dog outside. If you catch the dog in the middle of an accident, make a noise like “whoops” to get the dog’s attention. Then take the dog outside to finish.^[9]
- Be careful when you do this, however, since you don't want to trigger the dog. Use a calm tone of voice and choose one non-threatening word to use every time it happens.
- Be aware that you may get urine or feces on you when you do this.
Reward the dog for not having accidents. When the dog successfully waits to go outside, give it a treat for waiting. You should also praise it with statements like, “Good dog” and “Awesome job, buddy.”^[10]

EditTeaching Basic Commands

Use a calm voice when training your dog. Chances are, your abused dog has been yelled at in the past. Berating it or shouting commands will only make the dog more resistant to training, derailing your efforts. No matter what, keep your voice calm and steady.
- Yelling at an aggressive dog that has been abused may cause it to be more aggressive, as the dog thinks it’s fighting for its survival.^[11]
Set your dog up for success in its training or play exercises. Before you start teaching it obedience tasks or harder skills, you need to show your dog that it can be successful. Plan training sessions that make it easy for the dog to accomplish the task at hand. Then provide the dog with treats and praise.^[12]
- Keep sessions under 5 minutes at a time. Reduce distractions in the room. If the dog gets bored or if its attention wanders, stop and try again another time.
- When offering praise, remember not to shout or yell at the dog, even if it’s positive words.
- Avoid putting your dog into situations where you know it will fail.^[13]
- You can set your dog up for success by giving it a task you already know it can do, then rewarding it. For example, if your dog knows how to sit, start there.
- You could also ask your dog to bring you its favorite toy if it has one or to bring its leash if it likes to go on walks. When it does the task, give loads of praise and a treat.
Use rewards rather than punishment. Never under any circumstances punish a dog that has been abused. Instead, you should give it treats, love, and toys in exchange for successful behavior.
- Don’t yell at the dog.
- Never hit the dog.
- Don’t withhold affection or praise.
- Don’t give time outs.
Teach obedience skills. Start with basic commands to sit, stay, lay down, and heel. Stand in front of your dog and make eye contact. When it is looking at you, hold a treat out over its nose. Say, “Rover, sit.” When the dog obeys the command, give it the treat.
- Start with 5 minute training sessions. If your dog does well, increase this to 10-15 minutes.
- If your dog already knows some of the basic commands, give it lots of praise and rewards to show it that you are happy.

EditTraining the Dog to Overcome Its Past

Use clicker training. Clicker training is a great training technique that rewards your dog for good behavior. Start by clicking and giving the dog a treat. Do this a few times until the dog expects a treat when it hears the click. Then ask your dog to do something it knows how to do, such as sit or get its favorite toy. Click and give the dog a treat.^[14]
- Continue to click when your dog does something you like and provide a treat.
- Once it learns how the clicker works, you can use clicker training to teach new skills.
- You can use clicker training to reinforce good behavior or to train your dog to obey commands.
- You can find a clicker at a pet store or online.
Use counter conditioning to teach the dog to accept things it fears. Counter conditioning uses something your dog loves to help it get used to the thing it hates. For example, you might feed the dog next to one of its triggers or place its favorite toy next to it. At first, you need to place the item far away from the trigger, but close enough that the dog is aware of the trigger. As the dog gets used to being near the trigger, slowly move the good thing closer until it’s on top of or next to the trigger.^[15]
- For example, if your dog is afraid of the vacuum cleaner, you could place its food in a room with the vacuum cleaner. As your dog gets more comfortable, move the food closer and closer until it’s on top of the vacuum.
Begin desensitization once your dog has begun making progress. Your dog should feel safe with you and in its new home. Desensitization may be an option after your dog has responded well to clicker training or counter-conditioning. In fact, desensitization and counter-conditioning work well together.^[16]
- To desensitize your dog, identify your dog’s trigger. Choose the one you’d like to focus on, and then expose the dog to the trigger in a safe environment. Your dog should be exposed for 5 minutes at a time. Start by placing the item far away but where the dog can see it, and reward the dog for tolerating it. Over time, move the trigger closer to the dog until it gets used to it.^[17]
- When using desensitization, make sure your dog does not encounter the trigger when you aren’t doing a training session.
Talk to your vet about medications that can relieve your dog’s fear. In extreme cases, your vet can prescribe medication to help your dog stay calm. If your dog’s fears are preventing it from making any progress or are interfering with your dog’s life, it may be an option. Talk to your vet for more information.^[18]
- These medications are often similar to anti-anxiety medications that humans would take.
- Medications are not a replacement for behavioral training and socialization. It may take a few weeks for the medication to start taking effect. Continue with your dog's conditioning and training schedule.

EditTaking Care of Your Dog’s Health and Safety

Satisfy all of your dog’s needs. Provide your dog with food, shelter, toys, and love no matter what happens with your training efforts. An abused dog should never have anything withheld from it, as this can set it back.^[19]
- For example, do not deny the dog affection, lock it in a kennel, or take away a toy because it doesn't obey a command or has an accident on the floor. Similarly, refill the dog's food and water immediately if it is spilled or ruined, rather than trying to punish the dog by making it wait.
- Your dog also needs to exercise every day, so plan walks and play sessions into your day. Follow your dog's lead with how you exercise it, as some abused dogs will resist certain activities.^[20]
Take your dog for regular visits to a veterinarian. All dogs need vet care, but an abused dog may have special needs. Make sure that you take the dog in for regular checkups. Follow all of the vet's instructions in providing treatments. Since your dog may be especially afraid of the vet, look for a vet that is experienced with abused dogs and create an environment that is as calm as possible.
- Call ahead to let your vet know that your dog has been abused in the past.
Keep your dog safe. Your dog has been through a lot, and now it’s up to you to keep him safe. Over time, this will help your dog be more open to training. This includes providing the dog with a “safe space” where it can go if it’s feeling overwhelmed.
- Avoid pressuring the dog to venture outside its comfort zone.^[21]
Tie a yellow ribbon onto the dog's leash to keep strangers away. If the dog is afraid of strangers, tie a yellow ribbon around its leash to signal it shouldn’t be touched. Since not everyone is aware of this signal, you should also verbally communicate this need to anyone who gets close to your dog or compliments it. Say, “Please don’t come any closer to him, as he may bite.”^[22]

EditKeeping Your Efforts on Track

Keep your expectations in check. It may take years to help an abused dog overcome its past and become a family-friendly pet. Sometimes, the dog never fully recovers. While you may be hoping for a miracle, be prepared to invest a lot of time in training the dog.
- Expect it to take at least a year for your dog to become a family pet.^[23]
- Set lower expectations so that you aren’t disappointed.
Be patient with your pup. Your dog is struggling to overcome its past, so consider each improvement a milestone. It may seem like your dog is not making any progress, but try to remember where its been.^[24]
- If you feel yourself getting upset, take a break. It’s better to walk away from the situation than to risk showing your frustration to the dog, who may experience a setback.
Realize that dogs abused as puppies will struggle to trust. Older dogs who have experienced a loving environment in the past may overcome abuse more easily than dogs who’ve experienced abuse since birth. You will likely need to spend more time working with a dog abused as a puppy, and it may never fully recover.^[25]
- Don’t give up on your pup, and continue to treat it kindly.
- Keep your expectations in check. Your dog may never fully recover from its past, but it can still be a great pet.
- It is okay if your dog prefers certain family members over others or if the dog hides from guests. Try to accommodate your dog's needs. Do not force the dog to play or socialize with people that it is fearful of.
Remind yourself why you’re training the dog. Helping the dog overcome its past may be hard, but giving a dog a new lease on life can be a meaningful experience. If you are struggling to continue with training, take a few moments to think about what made you start.^[26]
Accept that the dog may not want to play. Even play can be difficult for your dog, especially since it may not have learned how to play as a young dog. It’s likely fearful and so consumed with avoiding further trauma that it doesn’t even think of play as an option. Give it time and it may warm up to the idea of having play time.^[27]