How to Rizz Quiz

What does it mean to have a lot of rizz? Find out here! “Rizz” is short for “charisma,” and it basically measures your charm and appeal—especially when it comes to flirting. When you have rizz, you have no problem getting attention from anyone! Rizz is also like currency—the more you flirt and even score a phone number (or date) from people, the more rizz you earn.

So, how much rizz do you have right now? Are you a natural at chatting people up, or does your rizz need a little work? Answer a few simple questions, and we’ll tell you exactly what your rizz score is!

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1. What do you absolutely need to have rizz?

1. Confidence.
2. Witty one-liners.
3. Money.
4. Self-love.

2. Someone cute catches your eye. What do you do?

1. I smoothly give them my number.
2. I go over and introduce myself.
3. I consider saying hi but get nervous.
4. I catch their eye in return and hope they approach me.

3. What’s your personal style?

1. Fashionable and eye-catching!
2. Stylish, but not too elaborate.
3. Comfort above all else. Who cares about fashion?
4. I don’t worry about fashion much, but I always look good.

4. When was the last time you tried to flirt with someone?

1. Just yesterday!
2. Pretty recently—sometime this past month.
3. I almost never do it—maybe last year?
4. Someone approached me yesterday and started flirting—I flirted back.

5. How skilled do you think you are at chatting people up?

1. I’m an expert.
2. I’m pretty good at it.
3. I’m terrible at it!
4. I’m used to being chatted up, not the other way around.

6. How would you handle a conflict with someone else?

1. I’d do my best to talk things out and resolve the issue.
2. I’d fight back and stand up for myself.
3. I’d avoid them but worry about it a lot.
4. I wouldn’t give it a second thought. I have a life to live!

7. Is scoring a date a big priority for you?

1. No, I’m really smooth and score dates whenever I put my mind to it.
2. Yes, but I never try too hard.
3. Yes, and I’m starting to feel desperate.
4. No, I tend to get dates without even trying.

8. How do you feel about big, super energetic parties?

1. Love ‘em! That’s what I’m doing this weekend.
2. I usually enjoy them, even if I get exhausted afterward.
3. I don’t like them and often look for excuses not to go.
4. I’m not a huge fan, but I make the effort sometimes when friends beg me to go.

9. What’s your vibe when flirting?

1. I always have an air of assurance and positivity.
2. I’m honest and direct about my feelings.
3. I make prolonged eye contact from afar.
4. I give really heartfelt compliments.

10. What’s your go-to conversation topic when you don’t know someone very well?

1. Music and entertainment.
2. Travel.
3. Politics.
4. Deeper stuff, like my hobbies and personal values.

11. What would you do if your crush only saw you as a friend?

1. I’d subtly try to woo them over time.
2. I’d accept it gracefully and start looking for romance elsewhere.
3. I’d feel really hurt and totally cut them out of my life.
4. I’d prioritize getting to know them better as good friends.

12. How would you get someone’s attention if they don’t know you exist?

1. I’d go over, say hi, and trust that everything will work out.
2. I’d come up with a couple of icebreaker lines before introducing myself.
3. I’d try to do something cute to get their attention, like getting them flowers.
4. I’d try to look my best and wait for them to come to me.

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[Edit]What is Rizz & Where Does It Come From?

Rizz is basically your ability to flirt, attract, and seduce other people. When you “rizz someone up,” it means you’ve convinced them to give you their number—or at least return your attention and flirt back. Rizz is a shortened form of “charisma,” and it’s not about being the most attractive or cool person around—it’s about having game and a very smooth way with words.

The Origins of Rizz

Kai Cenat, a popular Twitch streamer, first came up with the concept of rizz on TikTok in 2021—and before long, the #rizz hashtag took off across TikTok and the entirety of social media. Although Cenat originally described rizz as having the ability to flirt with any girl, you don’t have to be a particular gender to have rizz, and you can use your rizz to flirt with anyone—not just girls.

When he coined the term “rizz,” Cenat also declared that the formula for determining someone’s rizz is their pickup ability divided by their attractiveness. Basically, according to Cenat, someone considered less attractive but has plenty of game also has very high (or “winning”) rizz because they still score a lot despite seemingly having disadvantages. In other words, the better luck you have and the more disadvantages working against you, the higher your rizz is.

Types of Rizz

When Kai Cenat came up with the idea of rizz, he also came up with several different kinds of rizz that a person can have, based on their flirting ability and the vibe they give off when chatting people up. If you have no problem scoring a date even though you might not have a lot of money or clout, for example, you have a higher amount of rizz. If you rely on your money to get attention or act too overeager, on the other hand, you may have lower rizz. There are 3 main types of rizz, according to Cenat:

• W Rizz. W rizz, or “winning” rizz, is the best kind of rizz you can have. It means you’ve got a ton of game and have no problem chatting up just about anyone—and you have a consistent record of scoring phone numbers, Snapchats, and dates when you choose to put yourself out there. In short, W rizz means having a way with words and a ton of smooth, successful pickup lines at your disposal.
• L Rizz. L rizz, or “low” rizz, is the opposite of W rizz. L rizz means having little to no rizz at all and is often used to describe someone who tries too hard yet doesn’t have much success in flirting with others. Sometimes, L rizz is also described as “cringe” because someone with L rizz (according to Cenat) may even find themselves repelling people instead of attracting them.
• V Rizz. V rizz, or “unspoken” rizz, is a less-common kind of rizz—and if you’ve got it, you may not even realize it! That’s because unspoken rizz is all about being able to attract attention and score dates without even trying. If you have unspoken rizz, you don’t necessarily have a way with words or the ability to flirt with someone until they agree to a date; rather, you just have a vibe that makes other people flock to you and want to flirt with you instead.

[Edit]Want to learn more?

For more information about rizz and how to use it, check out the following sites:

• https://thetab.com/uk/2022/12/08/rizz-tiktok-meaning-explained-285136
• https://www.today.com/parents/teens/rizz-meaning-social-media-slang-rcna89400
• https://www.seventeen.com/celebrity/music/a43482218/rizz-meaning-tiktok/

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How to Detach from Someone

The process of detaching from someone can seem overwhelming, but you can do it either in part or whole by starting to care less about what they think. You can detach from them temporarily or break up with them (or break off the friendship) entirely. In either case, it is important to understand what steps to take to successfully detach and how you might cope with a detachment in your daily life.

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[Edit]Getting Space

1. Take a physical break from that person. It is advisable to take a physical break from the person you are detaching from, even if a short one. Take a weekend trip by yourself or with friends so that you have a change of scenery and perspective. You may still be interacting with them in your daily life, but a weekend getaway can refresh your perspective and help you come to a decision.
   
   • Taking a step back from a situation can help you see it from a wider angle, perhaps noticing things you didn’t see before.^[1]
   • A physical break also means a break from physical intimacy. You cannot truly emotionally detach from someone you are having sex with.^[2]
   • If you decide to stop having sex with someone, they may ask why, so be prepared with your answer about thinking about the relationship.
2. Decide if you should detach. Detaching temporarily from someone can be useful in helping you determine whether or not you want to continue being in a relationship with that person. Rather than breaking up with a romantic partner or cutting off a friend, pull yourself away emotionally so that you can think about what to do without causing the drama of an all-out breakup.^[3]
   
   • Breaking up on impulse can make you regret your decision later, causing you to want the relationship back. Detaching slowly and carefully considering your actions can help you make a final decision that you don’t go back on later in life.^[4]
   • You might want to detach from a romantic relationship because you realize that over time, you and your partner have changed, or because they have a negative character flaw they are unwilling to work on.
   • You might want to detach from a friendship because your friend has developed damaging behaviors, or because you realize they are never going to change a negative behavior.
   • You might want to detach from a parent if they are overbearing or consistently rude.
   • Take time to write out a list of pros and cons of detaching. Figure out if there are consequences you will need to plan for, such as loss of financial support or a change in lifestyle.
3. Talk to someone you trust. If you are considering detaching from someone temporarily to think about things, find friends or relatives who will support your decision rather than nag you about it. ^[5] You should also ask people you trust for advice about how to respond to the person you are detaching from.
   
   • When seeking advice or support, say something like, "Do you think I could tell you about my situation, and you could tell me what you would do?"
   • You also need others to provide a distraction so that you fill the void the other person was filling.
   • Go to others when you need help with things like fixing the computer or advice about a decision.
4. Set emotional boundaries. Detaching emotionally means that you are pulling away inwardly, not banishing the other person from your life. If you live with them, for example, you can still share all practical activities, such as eating meals together and discussing events and other superficial topics.^[6]
   
   • If you have children together, it is important to continue the daily routines, even if you have activities with the children that you usually do together. This includes things like attending sports games or putting them to bed.
   • To give yourself an emotional boundary during a conversation, keep the topics superficial and avoid discussing how you feel about things (i.e., sharing your opinion) and asking for advice. If you are asked a personal question, you can say that you do not want to discuss it at the moment.
5. Be honest. Even though your partner or friend may be confused by your behavior, you don't have to confide in them that you are trying to detach. Doing so may open the door for them to get angry, try to convince you to stop, or other such behavior. However, you should be prepared to answer their questions honestly. ^[7]
   
   • If they directly ask you what you’re doing, say, “I am taking the time to think about our relationship.” Be prepared to explain what you mean and answer any questions truthfully. “We’ve had a rough year, I feel emotionally exhausted, and I am taking the time to process how I feel about it all. I hope that you will give me the time to do that.”^[8]
   • Do not treat this as a game. You are serious about thinking about the relationship. You are not withholding emotional intimacy to get attention.

[Edit]Maintaining Boundaries

1. Consider the effects of detaching from this person. If you are thinking seriously about cutting off all communication with someone, then it is also important to think seriously about what the result of doing that might be. In addition to the emotional effects, detaching from someone may also affect your financial, social, or professional life.
   
   • Try to make arrangements for any negative effects of detaching from someone. For example, if you have children with someone, then you will need to make arrangements so that you can still see your children on a regular basis. If you rely heavily on someone for financial support, then you will need to find a way to support yourself.
2. Evaluate your decision. If you have made the decision to detach permanently from a relationship, knowing why will help you stick to your decision and save you from getting involved in the relationship again. Reflect on what your life would be like without them present and how they might react.
   
   • Write down or record yourself talking about why you are deciding to detach from someone. These will serve as reminders when you feel yourself wanting to go back.
   • Make a list of reasons why you should detach. On this list might be because they create too much chaos, they take advantage of you, that you were losing yourself in them, and so on.
3. Get away from the person. To permanently detach from someone, you have to cut off contact and get out of that person’s daily life, at least for a while. If you keep a person in your life who you truly want to detach from, you are setting both of you up for emotional pain.^[9]
   
   • Even if you still want to be friends, you need time away from the person to heal from the emotional attachment before you can attempt being friends. Otherwise, your past is too fresh, and you will be tempted to settle into old habits of intimacy.
4. Take a social media break. Another step toward detaching from someone is getting off of social media for a few days or weeks. Your relationship with this person, whether romantic or platonic, was most likely public on social media, and people may ask you questions. You may also see their posts, which makes it difficult to detach entirely.
   
   • Social media also records all of your text interactions, so it is easy to read old posts and recall old feelings, none of which help you detach.
   • You may want to consider making a general post to your friends to explain the situation so that they don’t talk to you about it.
   • You may also want to delete the person you are detaching from off of all social media so that you can no longer see their profile or communicate in this way.

[Edit]Taking Care of Your Emotional Needs

1. Pay attention to your own needs. When you are detaching from someone who was important in your own life, it is imperative that you rediscover yourself. No matter who the person the is, they made an impact on your daily life and how you saw the world. Now that they are gone, you must face life in a new way. The best place to start is discovering things you enjoy doing by yourself.
   
   • You need to learn how to cope with life without this person, which may mean finding answers to things they used to help you with, making decisions on your own, and so on.
   • Consider learning a new skill or visiting places you haven’t able to yet to discover what you are good at and where your weaknesses lie.
2. Take steps to move on. Start to move on from this person by looking forward to something new. Seek a new beginning, whether that means going back to school, joining a club or organization, even chasing a dream, you have been afraid to pursue.^[10]
   
   • Use visualization to imagine how happy you will be in these new settings and doing these new activities.
   • Consider dating again or striking up new friendships once you have had time to recover and stop being angry at the person you were detaching from.
3. Learn about detachment. To truly detach from someone, it is helpful to understand what detachment is. For one thing, detachment is becoming calm and not allowing others to get under your skin. It means maintaining your internal balance. But it does not mean that you stop caring about what is going on around you. It is essentially a state of being able to accept whatever happens.
   
   • This detachment allows you to stop caring what they think and make decisions based on your best judgement, rather than feeling pressure to conform to the other person’s desires.
   • Because detachment is a state of mind, it is a handy skill to have to endure the negatives in life.
   • For example, you may find that you cling to pleasure and fear pain, but practicing detachment will give you the ability to go through difficulty with humor and a sense of “this too shall pass.”^[11]
4. Find a support system. Detaching from someone you care about is painful, and realizing that you are not alone can help you make the plunge. Gather friends and relatives around you by inviting them out to events with you. You can also attempt to make new friends to fill the void. Find someone you can confide in, and find a peer group you can trust.^[12]
   
   • Set goals about building a support system. For example, you can write down lists of people in your life now and people you want to be there in the future by creating a visual diagram.^[13]
   • Approach people, you would like to be in your support system by asking them if they would like to be friends with you. Be honest about your needs.

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• Do not dwell on the things you experienced with this person, be they physical or emotional.
• There is usually no need to go to extremes, like vacating the place you live or changing your phone number.
• If you don't have friends, make some either in person or online.

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• When trying new things that are physically demanding (like an exercise routine or a new sports hobby), make sure you are healthy and fit.

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[Edit]Quick Summary

1. ↑ https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTED_00.htm
2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201407/how-leave-relationship-emotionally-stay
3. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201407/how-leave-relationship-emotionally-stay
4. ↑ [v161808_b01]. 21 May 2021.
5. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201407/how-leave-relationship-emotionally-stay
6. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201407/how-leave-relationship-emotionally-stay
7. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201407/how-leave-relationship-emotionally-stay
8. ↑ [v161808_b01]. 21 May 2021.
9. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-forward/201508/5-ways-move-when-you-still-love-your-ex
10. ↑ http://thoughtcatalog.com/nadine-hocson/2015/05/10-gradual-steps-to-successfully-detach-yourself-from-what-youre-holding-onto/
11. ↑ http://fragmentsofevolution.org/how-detachment-can-improve-your-life-and-relationships/
12. ↑ https://www.mentalhealth.gov/talk/people-mental-health-problems
13. ↑ http://www.willbaum.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/My-Support-System-_Today-and-In-the-Future_.pdf

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How to Make Your Boyfriend Go Crazy over You

Whether you are in a new relationship or if you are a long-term couple, everyone wants their boyfriend to be attentive and attracted to them. As relationships grow and change, it is common for the crazy passion you once had for each other to slow down or be expressed in other ways. Sure he likes you or even loves you, but there are ways to make him go crazy over you. You want him to feel desired, and you also want to encourage this passion by being a desirable partner.

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]Making Your Boyfriend Feel Desired

1. Compliment him. Complimenting your boyfriend is an important way to help him feel appreciated and loved. By complimenting him, you will show him that you accept him as he is and that you like the things that he says and does.
   
   ^[1] It is important to compliment your boyfriend for his big accomplishments, but you should also try paying your boyfriend compliments when he does little things as well. For example:
   • “Wow, that was an amazing kiss.”
   • “You looked so sexy and manly out there cutting the grass.”
   • “You were so good in the game today; it’s such a turn on watching you play.”
2. Lock eyes with him. Eye contact is a great nonverbal way to show your acceptance of someone. When we like people, we are more likely to make eye contact with them. Show your boyfriend that you love and accept him by gazing into his eyes. If he returns your feelings, then he should gaze into you eyes in return.
   
3. Kiss with passion. Kissing is one of the ways that we evaluate our partners, so being a good kisser is really important. Kissing can also help to improve your boyfriend’s feeling of attraction and connection to you. To be a good kisser, try to keep some things in mind:^[2]
   
   • It’s okay to start off a kiss with your mouth closed and move into a more passionate kind of kiss if the mood is right.
   • Make sure your teeth are clean and your breath is fresh before you attempt a kiss.
   • Focus on him and nothing else when you are kissing. Being distracted while kissing can be a big turn-off.
   • Try touching the back of his head or neck or stroking his arm while you kiss. These extra touches can be a great way to enhance a kiss.
4. Surprise him. Nothing helps spark or reignite passion like a little spontaneity. It can help break up your normal routine and show him that you feel crazy about him, which could inspire him to go crazy over you. Be flirty and live in the moment at all times, and he will always feel excited to be around you. Some spontaneous ideas to consider:
   
   • If your car breaks down in the rain, don’t just sit in the car waiting for him to fix it. Jump out and dance with him on the side of the road.
   • If you normally watch his favorite sports team at home, surprise him with tickets or take him out to a local restaurant with huge TVs to watch the game instead.
   • Take on a sexy alter ego and stay in character during your entire date.
5. Encourage him. One huge part of sparking desire in your partner is helping him feel good about himself. Encourage him in his goals like you would encourage a friend. Make sure that he knows that you are there for him and that you support him.
   
   • For example, if your boyfriend is worried about a job interview, then you can encourage him by saying something like, "You are going to be great! They would not have called you for an interview if they did not already think you were a good choice for the job!"

[Edit]Being a Desirable Partner

1. Show your confidence. Confidence is a really sexy quality for most people, so feel free to be your most confident when you are with your boyfriend. You can demonstrate your confidence by doing things like sharing your accomplishments and acknowledging your strengths.
   
   • Keep in mind that some people find confidence a little intimidating. If your boyfriend has low self-confidence, then projecting your confidence may not increase his desire for you.^[3]
2. Tell him about yourself. Revealing things about yourself will help to enhance your boyfriend’s feelings for you. Tell him all about yourself, including your interests, your goals, and your family. Be careful not to reveal too much too soon, though. Keeping some aspects of your life, goals, and feelings can add mystery to your relationship, which may help to increase his interest in you.
   
3. Pay attention to what your boyfriend is attracted to. Your boyfriend may have some specific things that attract him, so try to pay attention when he tells you that you look sexy. Perhaps your boyfriend loves lingerie, or maybe he thinks you look sexiest right after a workout. Some things that might help include:
   
   • Wearing eye makeup. Eye makeup has been shown to make women seem more attractive to some men.^[4] Try wearing some eyeliner or eyeshadow and mascara when your boyfriend is around.
   • Using unscented or lightly scented products on your body. It is important for your boyfriend to be able to smell your natural scent. This scent can help him to experience strong feelings of attraction.^[5] Try wearing unscented deodorant and using unscented bath products so that your boyfriend can smell your natural scent.
   • Wearing red clothing now and then. One study found that men are more attracted by the color red than any other color. Get a red dress or sweater to wear on a date with your boyfriend and see what happens.
4. Keep your time together light and fun. In addition to being sexy and desirable, another great way to drive your boyfriend wild is to just be a fun loving person. You want him to want to hang out with you, and showing him that you are the type of person who is up for a good time is a great hook. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, but know that there are a lot of ways to have a good time. Some ideas include:
   
   • Go for a hike and race him to the top for the last leg. Laughing through a competitive situation will bond you and endear you to him.
   • Go out to watch a sports game with him and his friends and impress them with your knowledge of the game.
   • Play a game of truth or dare to show him you can be silly and fun.

[Edit]Increasing His Desire

1. Stay close by. Proximity has been found to increase feelings that people have for each other. In other words, the more that you see someone, the more likely you are to like that person. To make this work for you, try stopping by your boyfriend’s locker on the way to class, suggest some regular study sessions, or find ways to see more of him.
   
2. Respect your boyfriend’s personal space and enjoy yours as well. A great way to make your boyfriend go crazy over you is to make sure that you give him a chance to miss being with you all of the time. Some of the initial spark and passion fizzle out because you get too comfortable with each other. You want him to miss you, but you also want him to know that he isn’t your sole source of happiness.
   
   • Make plans to spend time with your girlfriends one night per week and encourage him to have a guys night.
3. Mirror his movements. Mirroring someone’s movements can increase their feelings of attraction for you.^[6] To make this work for you, try to copy his physical position now and then. For example, if your boyfriend readjusts himself in his seat and leans on his right hand, wait a few seconds and do the same. Make sure that you are leaning on your left hand so that you look like a mirror image of him.
   
   • Try to be subtle about this. Mirroring often happens without people noticing they are doing it and it is important to avoid making it too obvious or it might seem strange.
4. Play hard to get. Even though you are already dating, you can increase your partner’s desire for you by playing hard to get.^[7] Some easy ways to play hard to get with your boyfriend include:
   
   • Waiting 15 minutes to respond to a non-urgent text or missing a call every so often.
   • Asking to reschedule if he asks for a date and you already have plans.
   • Denying him a kiss now and then.

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• Only act in a way that you are comfortable with. You are not obligated in any way to do anything to or with your boyfriend that you are uncomfortable with or not ready for.
• Always be genuine and true to yourself. If you find that you have to fake your personality with your boyfriend, he might not be the most compatible. Try to find someone who goes crazy over you when you are being yourself.

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[Edit]References

[Edit]Quick Summary

1. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/having-sex-wanting-intimacy/201410/what-do-men-need-women-5-insights
2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201111/why-we-kiss-and-how-do-it-right
3. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201310/does-everyone-find-confidence-attractive
4. ↑ https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1046/j.1467-2494.2003.00188.x/abstract;jsessionid=56CFE2372347EF6DBE2FD1F49E2AE01C.f01t03
5. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200801/scents-and-sensibility
6. ↑ http://link.springer.com/article/10.1023%2FA%3A1022986608835
7. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201403/when-should-you-play-hard-get

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